Authoritative Schooling

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The sun is shining… time to crack out those ice cream cones. But first, some home truths about strong schooling.

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Over the last few decades, several sections of society have drifted towards gentler forms of parenting. Giving kids increasing levels of choice in what they do or eat, while eschewing authority and consequences.

While this sounds like a kind approach, evidence suggests it's actually the opposite. Permissive parenting is linked with more acting out, lower grades, and poorer wellbeing. Giving kids too much freedom when they're young robs them of freedom as they grow.

Authoritative parenting may not sound as nice, but it tends to foster much happier and better-adjusted children. Virtually every parent-enforced rule (apart from limiting their friends) is positively linked to better relationships. Clear structure is the foundation of self-regulated and resilient kids.

In many ways, structure creates safety, particularly in school. When children know how to act and what to expect, they can focus on learning, not navigating uncertainty. This is especially important for our most vulnerable students. Examples of what this looks like include:

• Clear norms and routines for participation: who does what, when, and how we all respond.

• A shared narrative of mutual respect: how we value all genuine contributions, however off-the-mark.

• Swift consequences for ridiculing peers, because learning requires the sharing of thinking and mistakes.

Gentle schooling, like gentle parenting, might make us feel better about ourselves. AND it’s the easier option (at least to begin with). However, these are shallow and temporary victories.

If we really want to give our students the best possible start in life, it’s essential that we embrace authoritative schooling. This doesn’t mean being punitive… it just means balancing high levels of care with high levels of structure, and not shying away from ‘being the boss around here’.

🎓 For more, check out this analysis of gentle vs authoritative parenting.

Summary

• Permissive parenting sounds kinder on the surface, but too much freedom is often linked to poorer wellbeing.

• The same is true in schools: structured environments provide young people with the tools they need to grow.

• Build structure visibly (clear norms, mutual respect, swift consequences) & be brave enough to do the harder thing.

Little updates 🥕

• Article on reading → argues that knowledge underpins comprehension, making it key for reading success.

• Research on early educational inequality → identifies executive functioning as a factor in attainment disparities.

• Paper on teacher expectations → suggests that high but realistic expectations are associated with stronger engagement.

• Paper on helping → finds that being asked to help may reduce children’s intrinsic motivation.

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